What's it like wearing a cockcage - for real?
I had read a lot about being locked in chastity before we took our relationship to the next level and bought the cockcage. I really think most of the stuff was just fantasies about forced chastity and not for real. I have found very little about real life experiences and I have found almost nothing about how troublesome wearing a cockcage can be. For me wearing a cockcage gets even more complicated by the fact that I have a lot of piercings in my genitals.
So Miss M. has told me to write a little about my own real-life-cockcage-experience and since it is wise for me to do what I am told; here goes:
Buying the cockcage
The first challenge is to decide which cockcage to buy. They come in all price ranges and qualities.
The second challenge is choosing the right ring size. Many of the plastic cockcages includes rings in different sizes but that's not the case when you buy a deluxe custom made cockcage. So I went to the hardware store and bought rings in different sizes to try them on. That turned out to be a wise decision since the ring in the size I thought would be the perfect fit made my cock and balls turn purple in no time!
I finally chose a relatively large ring but that is not a "security problem" since my cock is secured inside the cockcage with a padlock through my Prince Albert piercing. So no matter how large the ring is I am not able to escape! For men without a Prince Albert piercing the ring should be smaller but it's a difficult task to balance between a ring small enough to prevent escape and yet large enough to allow the necessary blow flow to the genitals. I'm glad I just had to concentrate about the aspect of comfort!
Every day life challenges
Five of them were still healing and they got pinched when I sat down. When I got out of the car. When I walked. Pretty much every time I did anything.
I have solved the problem in a very unsexy way ( so please don't tell anyone!): Every morning I add cotton pads and tape to make sure the piercings stay in place and don't give me any trouble. And it works!
When all the piercings have healed I think I'll only wear the piercing rings to bed or when I don't have to wear pants.
As you can imagine its a nasty experience sitting at a meeting or in any other situation where you are not able to adjust the cage and stop the pain.
I suggested to Miss M. that I could start wearing my Prince Albert piercing ring inside the cockcage and put the padlock through the ring.
This solved the problem and my cock is still safely secured inside the cockcage since the ring can not be opened without using tools.
Note: after about a month I tried once more to wear the cock cage without the Prince Albert piercing ring inside - and since then I have only experienced pinching on rare occasions. So now I wear it without the Prince Albert ring. This holds the great advantage that I don't make a jingly noice when I jog!
Trousers: Tight trousers are a no go. I had to discard part of my wardrobe and get new ones since tight trousers makes wearing a cockcage uncomfortable and the cockcage makes a very clear bulge. Some of my female colleagues began to stare at my crotch - so go for baggy trousers!
If you stand up peeing every visit to the toilet will result in you having to clean the bathroom floor (or walls even). When you pee while wearing a cockcage its like turning on a shower.
On one occasion I was on a picnic and there was no toilet to be found so I had to pee behind a tree. The result was wet pants and wet shoes and one of the most embarrassing moments of my life. So …. do what women do: have a seat….
Another challenge is getting the cockcage dry afterwards. You'll have to be patient and really thorough with the toiletpater to get it all and avoid getting wet (and smelly!) underpants.
My cockcage is heavy and in combination with my heavy piercing rings jogging is not something I just do. It takes preparation; 1: I use a lot of tape and cotton pads to prevent pinching. 2: I wear tight underpants and running tights to prevent all the steel from bouncing around. 3: I also wear loose jogging pants to make sure the bulge from the cockcage doesn't show. Obviously I don't use the shower with the others after jogging or go to public pools where I would have to shower with others.
After wearing the cockcage 24/7 for about a week I noticed a rather serious swelling of my foreskin (sorry about the pic - I know it's not a sexy or pretty sight!).
It disappeared after two days without the cockcage but every time I try wearing it 24/7 it happens again.
We have solved the problem by unlocking me every night before bedtime so I can sleep without the cockcage. It also holds the great advantage that Miss M. can play with my cock and almost drive me completely insane when she sometimes allows me to slip it inside her pussy for a few seconds.
Washing your cock: Depending on the type of cockcage you wear it might be difficult to wash your cock and keep it clean. In my case the problem was solved when I was allowed not to wear the cockcage at night. In the evening I remove the cock cage and wash my cock, and in the morning I shower and wash my cock before putting the cockcage back on.
But a slave should not have a spare key to use when ever he fells like masturbating or fucking other women. So what we did was locking the spare key inside a little steel tube using a numbered plastic lock. This way I can remove the cockcage in case of an emergency but I can't do it without breaking the lock and Miss M. finding out.
My overall evaluation of life with a cock cage
As you might suspect from the above the real life experience is very different from the horny-porny-chastity-fantasies and it's a lot of hard work! Why bother wearing a cockcage when it's so much trouble?! That's a really good question! First of all there is no right or wrong way to do it. You'll have to find the way that suits you. The way that makes it possible for you to do your job and sleep at night and stay healthy.
I know Miss M. loves the fact that she literally holds the key to my cock. I love how the cockcage reminds me of my beautiful owner and the power she has over me every second of the day - no matter what I do - and I love that I cannot masturbate or cum without Miss M.'s permission. To me that's well worth all the trouble and if Miss M. wants to keep me locked in chastity the rest of my life I don't think I would mind at all!
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