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ASK US ANYTHING

Thank you all for being so curious about us and our way of life. I get a lot of questions so in order to save us all a little time, I have decided to answer the most common ones right here - and at the bottom of the page you can see a lot more.

Some questions are very personal - so if you don't want me to publish your question please let me know!!


Q: Are you really living this way?
A: Yes…. this is for real: no fiction.

Q: MUST your slave do everything you tell him to do?!
A: Yes - and he does…

Q: Where are you from?
A: I are not going to give you my address - let's just say I live in Europe and travel a lot.

Q: Can I hire you or your slave for a session?
A: No - we don't play with strangers.

Q: Does your site generate an income?
A: It's mostly expenses - but our custom videos covers the hosting etc.

Q: Do you do porn?
A: Yes…. obviously….. but we are just amateurs having fun.

Q: Aren't you concerned your slave might become infertile, when you crush his balls so hard?
A: No. I don't want to have any more children - so I'm not at all concerned about my slave's fertility.

Q: Does the slave experience any problems from having his ass stretched so much?
A: No problems. We are very careful not to cause injuries, the slave always "warms up" before we use the huge toys. What you see is the result of many years of training.

Q: Do you do custom videos and photos?
A: Yes - after many requests we now do custom photos and videos.

Q: Can you please hold the key to my cock cage?
A: Yes - and no. I have started to hold keys to other cock cages than my slave's. But I'm very choosy and only hold a very limited number of keys!!!!!




Other questions


Hello dear bdsm couple,

Great to see how you as couple explore Your bdsm fantasies.

I would like to ask you a question about hygiëne.

We started caging my hubby’s cock for several days.
I like iT a lot and hubby is always mooning and horny and he give me now each day orgasme and more.
Being now his Mistress and keyholder I am concerned about his hygiëne.

How often should I release him To clean the whole thing and his cock?

Thanks in advance for Your answer.

Kind regards,

Karen

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Hi Karen
Thank you so much - I’m glad you like our site!

I would say it depends very much on the type of cage. If it’s a relatively open cage it might not be necessary to remove it at all. But if it’s rather closed and it’s difficult to get even a finger inside it, I would say it should be removed for a thorough cleaning once or twice a week - under supervision of course! :-)

I hope you enjoy this naughty game and have a lot of fun!!

Kind regards
Miss M.

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Hi Miss M.
Why are you selling videos where you use your slave? Isn't that just prostitution?

Marc

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Hi Marc
I don't know and I'm really not concerned about what it is. I do it because it turns me on and is so much fun to do. I enjoy knowing that people get horny watching the naughty fun I have with my slave - and that they like it so much they are willing til pay! :-)

Kind regards
Miss M.

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Hello there,
Have you ever had sex with a stranger or a friend in front of your husband? If not, Would you like to?

Thanks in advance
Kind Regards
Fernando

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Hello Fernando
No, I haven’t tried that since I haven’t felt the urge to do it - yet....
For the moment I am fully content playing with my husband/slave and letting strangers watch videos and photos of our naughty games. In my custom made videos I let paying clients decide what I should do to him - and this is an incredible turn on!

Kind regards
Miss M.

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Hi
I love your website!! But is your husband really your slave?! I mean does he really do anything you tell him to do?
I would love to own a slave!!

Hugs and kisses
Louise

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Hi Louise
Yes. My husband is really my slave, and he does everything I tell him to do. It's very simple. If I wanted to I could even tell him to stay with you for a week and treat you like a queen - and he would do it. I can understand why you would love to own a slave but make no mistake. Owning a slave is a HUGE responsibility and not just fun!

Best regards
Miss M.

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Dear Miss M
I have read your blog on a regular basis for a long time and I am fascinated by the you and your slave live. I have become more and more interested in trying to be locked and denied. But I don't think it's much fun to do in on my own and I don't have a girlfriend. Can you please help me and hold the key if I buy a cock cage and pay you?

Curious regards
Sebastian
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Hi Sebastian
Thank you for writing me. I get a lot requests for key holding and usually I respectfully decline. I do in fact hold keys for a few generous gentlemen besides the one to my slave's cock cage but I am very choosy. The gentlemen I hold keys for are experienced and VERY serious about wanting to be locked and denied for a LONG time under my strict supervision. They have made me curious and convinced me that I will enjoy holding the key and that they will perform the kinky tasks I give them.
You obviously haven't been locked and denied before … but please write some more about what you have in mind and I'll let you know what I think…..

Best regards
Miss M.

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I Love your relationship. And thank you for being out there. We're the next door boring couple with kids and jobs except... we don't get bored a lot;)

DW does not seem interested yet in pegging me but that may change. She was not into fisting for a long long time until the universe aligned itself and she got curious. I red the whole internet, took it slowly and did it right. We're now moving to double;)

About width:
Hubby is @11,62/36,5cm, right? This is a large baby head. Isn't this difficult even for some women? Or it's the toy being soft and compressing at the pressure points allowing it? I am at @6,5/20,4cm and need a light pressure/fit to pass something not deep.

About depth play:
Couldn't find reliable info online. How did hubby straithen up the rectum to sigmoid turn and internal sphincter without getting hurt? You just keep pressing lightly and it will happen eventually? Is this permanent or you can straith it up on demand? I understand how easy it is not to feel any pain and tearing for going too far too soon. I'm a lot more afraid the lack of pain sensation inside may led to a bad accident. How do you reduce this risk?

Take this questions with a grain of salt. I'm just expecting hints, I know I have to find my own limits very carefully.

Thanks
P.
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Hi P.
Thank you so much - I’m glad you like our lifestyle :-)
The thought of my slave giving birth is rather fascinating! But you are right it is a very large insertion. I’ll let my slave answer your question since he is the true anal expert of my household:

“I am very careful about not hurting myself when going deep and the road to my present anal abilities has been very long. I have been stretching for more than 20 years. Like everyone else I started small and I have taken very small steps especially in the beginning. Being able to take a 1/2 liter coke bottle was a giant step back then. I have read about guys turning into anal acrobats taking extreme toys in just a few years using poppers and numbing lube - I’ll strongly advice against that. In my opinion its’ much to dangerous!
The dildos I use to really stretch are all relatively soft. This means that they accommodate to the bones of my pelvis which is so important. I have tried hard toys and that really hurts when soft tissue is being crushed between the hard dildo and my bones. When Miss M. wants to fuck me really deep I always warm up first: I slowly stretch my spinchter and straighten out my intestines so I’m ready for her to go deep very fast (she likes that). It takes about half an hour before I feel completely ready for her.
I don’t know about the lack of pain sensation when going deep. If I go to fast I feel it right away, and I am almost certain that you will too. It’s alright to push a little when you seem to have reached your limit. But if something doesn’t feel right: just STOP!

I think the most important advice I can give is, that i’s not about going as deep or wide as possible. It’s about having fun and enjoying it while you find your own limits. The result is probably that you as the years go by will be able to take larger and larger toys, but just enjoy the process. I guess you have read this already?
http://www.bdsm-couple.com/styled-124/styled-126/


Those were the words from my slave. I hope they were useful, and I hope your wife some day will experience the joy of pegging you!

Best regards
Miss M.

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Love your site so interesting
Love the way you have nearly got your arm in his ass
Love the way your slave is totally devoted to you
My Mistress (wife) and I are just starting out on our journey, I am being made to wear a cock lock 24 hours for a week.
Problem is I have read elsewhere and your site that the lock should be taken off at night ! 
Is that so, if so why, is it circulation issue ?
Please advise if you can.
Look forward to your next update
Stephen
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Hi Stephen
I’m glad you like our site - and glad to hear of the exciting journey you and your wife have started! :-)

There is really no right or wrong when it comes to chastity - if it’s fun and works for you it’s right.

The reason why my slave is not wearing his cage at night is that it makes his foreskin swell - and besides that I like to have access to his hard cock so I can edge him :-)

A few months ago I read that long periodes of wearing a small cock cage 24/7 (many months) might cause impotetence. I don’t know if it’s true but I am not taking any chances with my slave’s cock.

Enjoy your journey and feel free to ask us anything. Give my regards to your wife :-)

Best regards
Miss M.

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Hi Miss M
For how many years has your slave been stretching his ass? And is he experiencing any side effects?

Cheers
Mike
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Hi Mike
He has been stretching his ass on a regular basis since 2012 and I'm glad to tell you that he is perfectly well and is experiencing no problems at all! :-)

Best regards
Miss M.

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Dear BDSM-Couple,
 
first of all I want to excuse my bad English!
I’m following you on Twitter and your homepage since your beginning I guess.
The evolution of the piercings of Slave M. was my first motivation to follow you and the progress of increasing the size and the gauges of the piercings.
I love to seeing piercings at his genitals. I wear a Prince Albert with a size of 10mm by 19mm in diameter.
 
A couple of moth or years ago, I don’t know, my interest on chastity has increased. I’m afraid to tell my wife about it so I wear it for me in a hidden surrounding. When I wear this tight feeling it makes me happy and am closely desperate when I have it to take it off. I bought a really very nice cock cage but it’s hardly possible to wear it more than one or two hours.
 
So, have you an advice for me. Sure, I’m not able to pay 100 or more Euros for a cock cage! I already read your blogs and I understand that for fitting it is necessary to pay for good quality otherwise you pay twice.
 
But If you have read until here you maybe have an advise that helps.
 
At least: I hope of your reply and much more important: Stay on! I love your blog!
 
Best regards
 
A thankful Fan
 
Marc
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Hi Marc
We’re glad you like our blog. First of all you need to talk to your wife. If chastity really is your thing you must tell her. Show her our site and tell her about the advantages she will experience if she keeps you in chastity. Remember to focus on HER benefits!

If your current Cock Cage hurts you (?) you must get another one. Go for one made of plastic with different ring sizes and try them out to find the one that suites you.

We wish you luck!

Best regards
Miss M.

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Dear Mistress.
Do you let others rent your slave for video productions? If you do - I might be interested.

Allan
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Hi Allan
No. My slave only works with me - for now…. ;-)

Best regards
Miss M.

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Hi BDSM-COUPLE
The most painful experience I've ever had was when I had HOT SAUCE applied to my cock and balls and up my ass…. I can strongly recommend it (I know it wasn't a question. Sorry).

Kinky thoughts from the UK
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Hi stranger from the UK
We've never played with chili - but I'll have it in mind for a time when my slave deserves something very special!

Best regards
Miss M.

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Dear Miss M.
I am very. Fascinated by your life style and would love to own a real life slave but finding the right one is hard. May I ask how you met your slave? Was it on a Fetlife or something like that?

Sophia

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Hi Sophia
Finding the right one is difficult and I was just plain lucky. We met the "normal" old fashioned way but the man who was to become my slave quickly made it clear that he was into some rather kinky stuff. I had absolutely NO experience with BDSM but he made me curious and allowed me to try things in my own pace. And here we are many years later in a 100% Female Led Relationship….. life can be SO surprising so don't give up hoping!

Best regards
Miss M.

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